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The Millennial Generation & Entitlement: How Should The Church Respond? 
(published 2008)

tennisschläger testen köln link Over the last 5 years, many articles have emerged about our newest generation, dubbed "The Millennials." They are 80 million strong and born roughly between 1980 and 1995, which puts them at 13 to 28 years of age. They are an interesting group, because some articles written about them discuss how they are revolutionary, wonderful and self-actualized people. However, other studies and articles have described how deeply depressed, entitled, and emotionally bankrupt they are.

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http://nineplenty.download schouder om te huilen This motive may have contributed to the "self-esteem" movement that emerged in the 70's. One of the most famous faces of this movement was Marlo Thomas. A well-known celebrity, she and other celebrities kicked this movement into gear with her "Free To Be…You And Me" series. Through songs and performances, things such as self importance, tolerance, and personal happiness were extolled, telling children that no matter what, they can get what they want out of life. The sky is the limit! The series went on to win an Emmy and Peabody Award. It was all the rage. 

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http://earnchance.xyz unieke game pc This is evident in the segment of the millennials that is just now entering the workforce. Wall Street Journalist columnist Jeffery Zaslow recently echoed this sentiment on the show 60 Minutes. "You now have a generation coming into the workplace that has grown up with the expectation that they will automatically win and they will always be rewarded." On the same 60 Minutes segment, called http://repairreally.life/2018 dance small kids "The Millennials Are Coming", one young man admitted that he wants to be praised for whatever he does. Zaslow continued, saying that "the codling virus continues to eats away even when junior goes to college." He then told a story about how one professor had a student come up after class to complain about their grade, and then handed the phone to the professor saying their parent was on the line to discuss it!

voltage moxon beam Marian Saltzman, an executive at ad agency JWT, has been managing and tracking Millennials for the past 5+ years. She says that there is a segment of this group that is hard working, clever and resourceful, but there is also a segment of this group she has dealt with that are incorrigible. "(When speaking to them) you can’t be harsh, you cannot tell them you are disappointed in them, you can’t really ask them to live and breathe a company because they are living and breathing themselves and that keeps them very busy…" Morley Safer summed it up: "They come first… childhood filled with trophies and adulation didn’t prepare them for the cold realities of work." 

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roger von hoveden So scientifically, http://thiscool.space david allen crispé not only did the self-esteem movement not work like it was suppose to, but the rate of emotional problems has increased. The increasing rate of depression and alcohol abuse could perhaps be attributed to the increase in broken families, abuse and neglect, which has been on the rise since the 1970's. But part of this striking increase in psychosocial problems is also attributable to children being raised in a "me-centered" environment, free from failures, only to have the realities of the world hit them head-on as they get older and with little framework for coping with them.

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http://destroyhers.live spiral connect ffkda This is where the church can help. At our church, we encounter youth all the time who have these exact issues, ranging from being totally consumed with self, to more serious issues such as emotional problems and carrying the pain from a broken or abusive home. Many have never stepped into a church, but they see the real relationships the youth at our church have with each other—and they are intrigued. As one of the high schoolers put it, "At school it is cool to hate God, but they see the tight relationships we have that are nowhere else, and it is different than what they are use to, and they want that." It is something that goes against the grain of many relationships they see among their peers, where jumping from friend to friend is the norm when they don’t meet your need.

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Another high school senior who attends our youth program observed; "the movie Mean Girls is only a slight exaggeration - girls at school are competitive, are in cliques, and they look at relationships as something to fill their basest instincts. One day they say they love you, then the next days they are calling you names for daring to wear the same shoes they have. They don’t know how to find the real love that only God can bring to them." 

It is the love of Christ that has really transformed the lives of many youth here. They hear for the first time how the God of the universe loves them so much that He died for them. Accepting Christ into their life, they feel much of their loneliness fall away as they experience the love of God in their lives. They soon learn how more rewarding and fulfilling it is to serve and love others, instead of serving and loving only themselves. 

Not only do they build meaningful relationships with peers, but they take this love to those outside their peer group. Many of our youth volunteer their time in an after-school program at an inner-city ministry nearby. A group of the college-aged kids also volunteer on a regular basis at a homeless shelter for women. They folded blankets, clean-up trash, helped with childcare, threw birthday parties, and did whatever else was needed. For their hard work were presented with a certificate for their outstanding service at the 2007 United Way Volunteer Celebration. In their newsletter, United Way had this to say: "The service (your youth) provides is incalculable. In addition to helping out in so many important ways, their friendly manner brings smiles to the faces of children who would otherwise go without much recognition on a special day."

Sean, a 20-year old man diagnosed with an autism spectrum disorder, struggled most his life with relating and loving others. He was plagued with bitterness from years of brutal treatment at the hands of his peers at school. In 2003, he accepted Christ and since then has blossomed into one of the most loving and serving individuals I know. He started volunteering his time at Salvation Army in 2007, and in 2008 he was awarded the "Outstanding Student Volunteer of the Year" in front of a gathering of 200+ prominent business people, organization workers, and other volunteers. When asked about his change from being bitter at people to wanting to serve others, he said "When I learned to forgive, then I learned to have compassion, especially for those who have it more difficult than myself."

Teaching kids from the Millennial generation the love of Christ, generosity, gratitude, and the joy of serving others has melted away a lot of the negative stereotypes that plagued them.

So it is possible to resolve the paradox; Millennials’ depraved, emotionally bankrupt lives need the same treatment as all the generations that preceded them. The law of love is the Lords’ prescription for lives that work, and as the scriptures say “…the plans of the Lord stand firm forever, the purposes of his heart through all generations (Psalm 33:11).”

1. McCrindle Research Generation Map Study 2003
2. Harvard University study reported in Harvard Mental Health Newsletter, February 2002