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http://firepaul.live/2019/05 stop agriculture tahiti Here is what I think is wrong. A trend is emerging for young adults to be unable to cope with real life, so they turn to self-destructive behaviors or rely on medication to function (see my previous blogs for the research on this). One possible contributor to their inability to cope is having been raised for 15 – 20 years in the fantasy world I described above. This trend is affecting kids from good homes – like the one in which my kids are living. produit lacoste pas cher click Between their good life and the even more fun life to which they escape, they rarely develop the resilience to withstand even the normal hardships life brings.
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umso desto oder desto umso “My story is, I can’t work, because who else would look after my kids? My wife passed away, my children’s mother. I’ve got a 20 year old son who is sick. Fourteen people live in this place. We have no electricity, no water, no drains. But we are still alive. God will not forget us. He created us. That is what I believe.”
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http://nearhasn.live/2019/04 colin neuvy sautour We have done experiments in previous months to help my kids get grounded in reality, such as serving in a homeless shelter, supporting two children from third world countries, finding happiness in something other than themselves, etc. http://humanwanted.live/2019/04 raketensysteme der bundeswehr But what if for one month, they weren’t allowed to “escape” further via books or visual media? Could they handle that? Can they appreciate how 90% of the world has to live, and 99% of the world throughout history? How did others cope when hardships came up? Will we see the entitlement monster crop up in their attitudes if they can't "escape"? Are my kids lives grounded enough that they don’t feel entitled to keep playing their games and watch cartoons? What this will look like in practical terms is that the kids will only read books or watch shows (or movies) that depict real real-life situations dealing with life’s true hardships. vincentz network seminare In other words, goodbye Eragon and hello Diary of Anne Frank.
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I let the kids know what this month’s experiment was, and the reactions were mixed. They seemed excited to watch real-life movies (or documentaries) and read non-fiction books, but when I started listing the shows they couldn’t watch, like Adventure Time, they struggled with that. Luckily I was able to come up with a long list of books for Morgan to choose from (my avid reader), and she found a few that looked promising.
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With Netflix, there are actually a lot of documentaries or “real-life” shows the kids can choose from, but they seem to settle a lot on “How It’s Made”. Not sure that is exactly what I had in mind. I ordered “Colonial House”, a PBS show depicting 21st century people trying to live a 1628 life in Colonial America, for our family show to watch together, and we watched the first episode. It was a big hit! We are all hooked.
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Meagan and I are reading together “Little House in the Big Woods,” Meagan is enjoying it immensely. It was funny because Morgan felt she was too old to join us (“that’s for little kids mom”), yet one night when we were reading it out loud we caught Morgan listening in. The next day I found it on Morgan’s bed – she had read the whole thing.
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We are finishing up Colonial House, and it has been a great experience. Between that show and the books they have been reading, we are having a lot of great discussions on how different a life we lead then from many people before us. I can tell though that to get the full impact of what I want them to learn we will have to extend this experiment through March.
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In March we slowly eased the kids back into watching and reading their regular forms of entertainment, which they were really glad to have back (too glad maybe?). Meagan responded the best with the whole experiment, but I am a little worried about Morgan because I loaded many free books onto her Kindle and she turned her nose up at them. Amazing classics that deal with real life like Pollyanna and Rebecca of Sunnybrook Farm. Not to be thwarted so easily, we rented the movies instead and watched them for family night, and they liked that. It led to some good discussions about hardships and the right reactions and attitudes to have in the midst of them. We are still carrying on productive conversations about balancing real life and escapism.