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http://eachchoice.live/2019/04 stoffmuster kostenlos bestellen Kids should have an opportunity to learn a number of good character traits by living through life’s natural course of events. Oscar Wilde once said "I forgot that every little action of the common day makes or unmakes character." Situations arise daily where a child can learn things like kindness, patience and self-control. ich glaube auf französisch The tendency in our culture, however, is to rescue them from any situation that may be difficult. Your kid doesn’t like a particular food/sport/task? Then you quit or move on to something they like or for which they show more “talent” (lost opportunity for perseverance). Your child always wants a candy bar at the store? You tell them “yes” because telling them “no” results in temper tantrums (lost opportunity for self-control). vols johannesburg paris Our entitled culture subscribes to the motto “My Happiness Now!”, which chokes out many character building opportunities.
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total eynatten benzinpreis One of the first things I did was create a discussion sheet for each trait. I didn’t want it to be overwhelming, so in big print on one piece of paper I defined the character trait, listed its synonyms, and then a corresponding bible verse. vivo now model here We spent time discussing what the trait means, what it doesn’t mean, how entitlement makes you do the opposite, and the biblical perspective. We tacked this up on their corkboard that lists their daily responsibilities so it would be seen each day. Then at night we spent some time discussing how they exhibited (or not exhibited) that character for that day. We also memorized the bible verse.
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http://guystony.live/2019/05 regel kaltgepresste öl COMPASSION: We started with this trait, and discussed synonyms like being altruistic, unselfish and showing kindness. At the end of the day, the kids told us the ways in which they showed compassion and to whom they showed compassion. We read examples of how Jesus showed compassion. We talked about how feeling entitled to stuff places the focus on yourself and not other people. The kids learned their memory verse, which was Philippians 2:3,4: “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.” I also took them to a homeless shelter where they served kids in need by helping them make a craft, teaching them to play a game and serving them food they made. I think they responded really well to this experience and as a side benefit, they expressed more gratitude for what they do have.
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http://christbunch.live/2019/04 alkohol medizinische verwendung branche médecin perpignan PATIENCE: The third week we kept the same memory verse, since the last half of Ecclesiastes 7:8 deals with patience. But we also supplemented with a few other verses as well. Fortunately we have had many opportunities to practice this throughout the years, so we focused on areas and circumstances in which they still have difficulties being patient.
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http://jacktalking.live/2019 vierjährige singt im auto GRATITUDE: Our memory verse this week was Ephesians 5:20:“Always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of Jesus.” There are so many great verses on thanks and gratitude, but I liked this one because it talks about the source for everything we have – God. Over the years, as we pray with our kids, this is one of the easier things for them to say in their prayers, such as thanking God for a home, friends and food. It is a really good basis from which to start. We talked about how entitlement robs us of being grateful, and why that is bad. One exercise we did was “gratitude walks,” where we went somewhere and thought about how we can be grateful for what we simply saw around us (and how we took it for granted).
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http://eyespublic.live/2019 spannungen mit bass andrea figallo tierce hier a auteuil FORGIVENESS: I had to throw this in the group mostly because I see bitterness in a lot of people today, and how it ruins their relationships. One thing underscoring bitterness is the idea that you are entitled to being treated a certain way and when you are wronged, you can’t let it go. That person isn’t worthy of your “forgiveness,” for whatever reason - it will let them off the hook, they need to show penance first, etc. Then you have no ability to truly love the person, and it comes across in how you treat them. I see in my two older girls how their lack of forgiving the other is damaging their long-term relationship. So we started off this week by explaining this verse: “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” (Colossians 3:13). Christ forgave them for all their horribleness, which is way more appalling than what they are doing to each other, so they should do the same. Without any surprise, they each had multiple opportunities to practice this!
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This was a great experiment. It was really great to be mindful of these character traits and spend time understanding what they are. It even helped mom and dad! The best part was when life experiences came up where we had to take the character trait we were focusing on and actually put it into practice.
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